A few days ago I posted about my husband Patrick and I both having tested positive for Coronavirus after Patrick had to be taken to the emergency room, unable to breathe. This is a follow up post to this.
My next post as many have requested…I will try to post about how we both caught the coronavirus.

I finally got another call in so I could get a different doctor…one I could actually understand to tell me about Patricks current struggle with Covid 19…the doctor I got this morning when I called at my usual 10am time was just impossible to understand and I hung up the phone crying. The next doctor when I finally was able to get through again, hours later, was wonderful, and took her time to explain Patrick’s current status with this damn virus. Here is the summary below. And then later in the day, I got an out of the blue text…from a Youtube watcher, who knew a very knowledgeable man…Both reports are detailed below for anyone interested in this coronavirus saga.

Before I tell you about it…I want to tell you that your support has been what has kept me going through this ordeal. I couldn’t have done it without each individual little tidbit that each of you have provided me with, big and small…it has all fit together like a perfect puzzle to nourish every bit of me. I can never repay the kindness you have all shown me!!! For those who send money to me by PayPal…and ai haven’t been able to thank…I can’t seem to find your email address…please reach out to me, I want to individually thank every one…money isn’t easy to come by and I so appreciate every single dollar that has been sent. It has taken SOO much of that worry about that element away from me…and it’s nice to have one element of worry squished because as many of you know…I’m a chronic worrier!!!

So here is the report today, and the further down the report for tonight…

Creatine level…they don’t monitor his blood for this becuase the machine is doing all the work and getting rid of the poisons. The dialysis machine causes his heart to work very hard, so they give him Adrenalin to help speed it up a bit but not have to work so hard. They will begin to back off the Adrenalin in a few days when the dialysis has cleaned many times, and relieves that stress, and hopefully dialysis machine will be able to be taken away soon. He is coping well on the ventilator now, his lungs are holding 86-90% which they are satisfied with, though not thrilled with and he has gone from 70% to 65% pressure on the machine settings, in the last hour and is coping with it, so a small improvement there. Some level called Po2, which I remember the initial emergency room doctor talking about is at 11…and I distinctly remember her saying Patricks was at 3…and that was quite bad…and 11 is what they want so here is there now with that number. They are still dealing with the inflammatory issues.  Asked about the hydroxicline and Zmax thing again, and she says that it’s big in the news right now, but for everyone it’s helping, it’s killing 10 more, and it’s just not indicated in this situation. I asked about using my plasma, and she said again it’s only in clinical studies, it not proven. She says he has antibodies now…so he doesn’t need antibodies…and his antibodies are indeed fighting. She also says that they all know about him, have seen his videos, know he has an incredible baseline and no medical problems…they can’t wait til he wakes up and tells them more stories. She was so nice…I’m still blubbering. At least the machine went from 70 to 65. At least they are happy with his oxygen levels, and at least the adrenaline use is going down. And he has his own antibodies now. So that’s good news right…not HUGE, but a little to embrace….


Tonight, 5/27, I got to speak to one of the top 6, head of Covid19 care in South Africa hospitals! One of our Youtube viewers said that our videos had gotten her through a dark time when she lost her husband. When she saw our latest video and then went to the website post about Patrick’s illness, she decided to take action since she was here, a sailor, and nearly cried watching the video. God I’m glad she reached out to me…this doctor was amazing.

This fairly young sounding doctor is of the 6 top brains of South Africa in regards to Covid 19. He took my number…made his number anonymous smartly, and called me and chatted with me for a full 15 or 20 minutes…He let me ask questions, gave me the run down of Covid 19 care in South Africa and much much more.

First… I asked about hydroxychloroquine, Azithromycin, and Remdesivir, and something else that ends with -integra. They are doing clinical studies, right here, right with this very doctor and the 5 others on all of these. None of these experimental drugs are ready for humans in his, and the others on his teams opinions. He feels that the US and many countries are searching for an answer, ready to cling to anything that succeeds even if it only works 10% of the time. You rarely hear about the 90% that die fast, or have terrible other complications. If we were to change Patrick to a private hospital and had a spare $ 200,000 USD or more as required to add to the mix to try an experimental drug…and would sign copious waivers, he would use it.  But he said if it was his body…or his wife’s body, he would NEVER ever want Andy thing he has seen so far in these clinical trials, …never would want something that is such a gamble to be used. As a matter of fact, he said if he had covid 19, he would want to be in exactly Patricks position…not in a private hospital, but in Groote Schuur..it’s where the best results from Coronavirus are coming from. The top doctors are at that hospital…the care is around the clock not just by weekday except in case of extreme emergency, as it would be in the private hospital. There is MUCH more Covid19 experience at Groote Schuur than any other hospital becuase it houses the best medical school in the country and its extremely academic…hence no experimental drugs are tolerated, high standards are followed, by the book, and there are so many eyes because of the round the clock care, that any problems that develop are going to be dealt with much much faster. He says in the USA you may be talked in to one of these experimental drugs but he could never ever do that to himself or to his family. He also pointed out that we are VERY VERY lucky to be here in S Africa. He went to school in Columbia, and has a lot of doctor friends there now and they talk a lot between them about what is happening. In New York if you are over 65…it’s a hard and fast NO VENTILATORS SPARED for you. Patrick would be so out of luck if I had managed to fly him there. He says in South Africa, they absolutely base the choices on baseline. Whoever has the best baseline gets the ventilator, gets the machine. If Patrick has both a ventilator and a full time dialysis machine allocated to him…he says he has made a very high grade of baseline health.

Also…as he talks with family,he has a pretty good summary of what he tells them. Days 1-7 of when hard cold symptoms begin..this is when you are gonna land in the hospital if you are gonna land in the hospital…and you may just need a couple of days on a ventilator, or you may die very fast and suddenly before anyone has a chance to stabilize you. Or you may take some bad turns and things may get more serious. Days 7-14 of symptoms…this is the time that it is “as rocky as hell”. Your boat could overturn with an hours notice and your a goner. He tells his families that it doesn’t matter what the blood tests show, what any of the numbers show, or what he thinks about any of the numbers…you are in severe danger territory during days 7-14 if you are in the hospital still. If you are gonna die on this ventilator…it’s gonna be between days 7 and 14. Days 14-21 is when the virus has self eliminated..it can’t just keep growing and enveloping the body…it’s gonna be dead in this period and things are going to very very slowly get better. If you have made it to this stage, your doctor and nurse and family can breathe a very long sigh of relief. You are probably gonna survive this disease! The one exception to this is at day 14 if you find yourself in a very bad spiral down…then it’s probably not gonna turn around.You are gonna die fast if you are in a downwards spiral at this time. I’m not sure if that’s the whole day 14-21…or the beginning of it or what..it’s the one point that now as I write this, sort of gets past me. But Patrick’s not in a fast downward spiral right now. He’s already down pretty far though…so hopefully it’s the spiral that’s significant and not the “down”. But my general feeling is that with today’s minor little improvememts, as opposed  to a very bad spiral down…that we are almost OK to have hope now.

Patrick had his first hardcore, for sure symptoms on May 12. I think it’s reality he may have felt it coming before then…maybe even as early as May 8 but that is speculation on my part. He went in on May 15…so it seems her went in on the day 7-14 mark..or slightly before it…so he was in the big danger period for the whole 1st week to 10 days at the hospital. Like the whole time he has been there. Imagine his boat was about to sink without much notice. God. But NOW, we are without a doubt at Day 15, possibly as late as Day 18. If we are at Day 18, I’m slightly worried because the last few days have certainly been a downward spiral. But today, if day 15…was a step up finally. Anyways, it seems we should go up from here.

So…the next thing we spoke about is the virus itself. After approximately 14 days in the body..the virus can no longer survive. It can’t do any more ravaging…it’s about dead. Antibodies or no antibodies, which he is said to have the antibodies now…the virus can not go on…it has done What it’s going to do. Hopefully the surrounding organs have been supported well enough to start working on their own again. That is ALL that South Africa at this point feels should be done…monitor and support the surrounding organs so they can come out the other side OK, which is exactly what has been done for all of Patrick’s organs in the last 12 days….so fingers crossed they managed to do it well enough. He said that’s the big huge challenge is being able to protect those organs from the virus.

Oh and the other thing he stressed…South Africa has lost NOBODY who had a good baseline…not even 1 exception to that rule. The people who have good health going in, even if they get extremely critical during the virus, they don’t lose them…they may struggle maintaining their bodies and there may be lasting problems after the illness ends…but no one has died. Truly, only those with co-morbidities have died. Every critical case they have had with no co-morbidites have survived. And many with co-morbidities have survived too.

It was really really good to talk to this Doctor… You hear the stats of what’s happening in the rest of the world. But what’s happening here in South Africa…has been a mystery I have been struggling with. I’m times like this I have found google is NOT my friend…just leading me in to despair really…So being able to talk this doctor just filled in so many blanks for me! Thank you Wendy for arranging such a gratifying conversation with someone who really knows about this coronavirus disease and it’s treatment in South Africa!

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16 Comments

  1. Ok Rebecca this is my contribution to your daily pep talk….
    Take care of yourself first and foremost. Eat, sleep, laugh, cry, communicate and take care of that cat. Better yet pet the cat as often as you can. Pets are very positive and healthy for your well being in so many ways.
    The news that you have just shared is very encouraging and I would definitely agree that HOPE is very much alive and well.
    You asked for a miracle and I think it’s happening and I’m just going to go with that because it seems to be working.
    I didn’t know what to think about South Africa or what kind of care they have there but from what I’m hearing from your posts there couldn’t be a better place for you to be in your situation and that is a miracle in itself!
    I’m praying and constantly thinking about you and Patrick along with your impressive followers and supporters and that is some very powerful MOJO!!
    Will keep it coming for as long as it takes.
    One of my personal goals is to see you two again in some awesome exotic location for a little vacation so Patrick needs to get it together. I’m retired now so that could actually happen once this is over.
    Stay strong, reach out and will all get through this together!!!
    Steve

  2. So sorry for you and Patrick. Sending all the goodness I can muster and praying that you both recover To a full and healthy life.

  3. Hang in there Rebecca. You have both faced big obstacles before by using both your intestinal fortitude and your ingenuity. Now is time to trust the ingenuity and commitment of others. In Australia we have found that none of the medications being touted by people in high office in the US is effective. The only effective treatment at the moment is good clinical care responding to and treating the symptoms, especially extreme reaction known as a cytokines storm. If that can be kept to manageable levels, and Patrick’s kidneys are given time to heal and function on their own, you should get a good outcome. Keeping fingers crossed for you.

  4. Hey Rebecca, mine and my families hearts go out to you …that man of yours is a fighter …he WILL pull through this…Steve is right YOU need to take care of yourself as well …drink water…sounds silly but we all forget ! …definately pat the cat they have an awesome way of calming nerves….sleep as much as you can ….DON’T blame yourself or ask what if! …its truely not your fault and you can not change the past…be there for Patrick when he wakes up….picture your self sailing off into another sunset togther as much as you can…power of those thoughts is emence…HUGE hug from us here in New Zealand.
    Cheers mark

  5. Your stories have been an inspiration to this landlocked office worker. I heard another cruiser mention your situation. So know for everyone here there are dozens more wishing the both of you the best.
    Mark<

  6. Thanks Mark. We need all the best anyone can muster up. He’s not doing great, but I think he may make it out, even if beat to a pulp.

  7. Rebecca, we are so very sorry to hear about Parick’s passing. He will be missed. We feel as though we know you guys. Although our paths have never crossed on our sailing adventures, we watch you on YouTube. We send our love your way.
    Karen and Ken Watson
    SV Chasing Dreams

  8. Rebecca,
    Our hearts break for you. Dave and I have been together since 1975. We can only offer our condolences. We understand the taking care of each other.

    I wrote down a memory from our first meeting Patrick, in 1984 in Seattle WA. For your files….

    Dave and I had recently moved to Seattle in 1984, after some events that made me see Life could be short and I wanted to leave my hometown and spread my wings.
    I worked with Susan in the programming department, who talked about her boyfriend traveling in an experimental boat, doing research as he cruised. The Slippery Turtle was between 12 and 15’, a small boat for a large ocean.
    While Susan was on lunch, I took a phone call from a Patrick. He said he would be in town this afternoon and wanted to let her know. Susan was very surprised by the message, as the cruise was planned for several more months.
    Patrick showed up at the office, a rather disheveled person. He didn’t seem like Susan’s type, but who was I to say. Susan explained that Patrick’s routine for going offshore was to run his fingers through his hair and cut off anything above his fingers. Sometimes, it wasn’t very even, with a few bald patches. He expected to be offshore long enough that it would grow back and he could have a barber cut it nicely.
    Well, the story included a Coast Guard boarding in the Caribbean, another Coast Guard boarding, being the smallest boat to transit the Panama Canal, and the Navy boarding in the Pacific. The Navy managed to foul their anchor in his masthead (yes, tiny boat) and pulled the mast out of the bottom of the boat. The Slippery Turtle went down in just a few minutes.
    The Navy took Patrick aboard, found a Panamanian freighter headed north and shipped him off. (Patrick would later take the Navy to court for damages and won. He wrote articles about the process for others to follow.)
    So, the freighter dropped him off in San Diego and he managed to get to Seattle. Dave and I had dreams of cruising, and loved hearing Patrick’s stories of his solo circumnavigation when he was 26. That boat had a foot for every year – it was 26’. Actually, a nice size for a solo sailor.
    As a friendship developed, Patrick called one Friday, we invited him over and he said he’d be there in an hour. An hour came and went with no Patrick. Oh well, maybe we misunderstood.
    The next Friday, at the arranged time, Patrick knocks on our door. Oh, did we misunderstand? Oh, no. After talking to us, Susan put her foot down, said she was leaving for the weekend, and he wasn’t to be there when she got home. In the prior week, Patrick had found: an apartment, a car, a job, and moved.
    He swam with dolphins in the Indian Ocean. He woke up to see pasting lights on the horizon. He beat the Navy. He inspired.
    Namaste, Patrick.

  9. Great story..thanks for writing it. Little changed after that 🙂

  10. Rebecca-
    My name is Laura Davis and a dear sailing friend of mine told me about you and all that’s happened recently with you and Patrick.
    I watched your video and am feeling a lot after seeing it.
    I’ve been a hospice caregiver for years and balanced the work with a lot of good sailing, my first 25 years with my husband and our son and then crewing for a number of different vessels after he and I split up.
    I just turned 60, live onboard my boat in the Santa Barbara marina, and would like to communicate with you about the possibility of perhaps crewing with you.
    I’ll continue to try and find ways to contact you, I’m not sure if this will get to you- if it does, please let me know at: larasails@gmail.com
    I’m sending you love and strength.

  11. Dear Rebecca,

    So very very sorry over your great loss. Patrick was wonderfu, straight and represented the best kind of sailor one could ever find. We don’t presume to offer advice or say that time will heal. But as you are hit doubly with both the terrible loss of Patrick and additionally by the virus attacking you so hard, all my wife Lesley and I can do is send you all the love we have. We pray you will somehow find renewed strenght to go on. Patrick will surely be always be at your side. . Hoping so much you and the Brick..and Patrick’s spirit sail on and on. One thing we learned from our own experiences of deep loss.. was to try not rushing into big decisions… the more time you give yourself the slightly clearer things become. The more anyone tries to push you into a decision .. stall until you feel you are ready. My Dad used to tell me about loss and catastrophe..” one step at a time.. and the smaller the better ” Patrick was just so lovely.
    All our love Robin and Lesley Deasy

  12. Thanks so much. Trying to make slow decisions…but also have to consider what immigration will decide for me too. Trying to breathe, and take it as slow as I sensibly can.

  13. So sad. Glad that you’re sticking with it. You seem like a rare find, I grew up in Narragansett Rhode Island I am in my mid-fifties. I bought a 1972 40 foot Morgan Sheel ( Makai ) previous name “trek” shes at Brewers Marina in wickford RI on the hard. I hope to Splash her in the fall and sail her South is where I’m at now in Florida. I’ve installed lots of new stuff . when I get back to Rhode Island in the next couple of weeks I am going to install a autopilot and freezer drawers other than that I think she’s ready to go. I hope we meet up sometime. I think we have the same love for the ocean. Joe…

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